Imagine enduring 30 hours of relentless labor – a feat of strength and resilience that redefines the meaning of sacrifice. Actor Vikrant Massey, celebrated for his role in '12th Fail,' recently shared a deeply personal glimpse into his journey into fatherhood, and his words are a powerful testament to the incredible strength of women. He revealed the extraordinary experience his wife, Sheetal Thakur, underwent during the birth of their son, Vardaan, stating unequivocally, "Nothing a man does can come close to it."
Massey, who welcomed Vardaan into the world with Sheetal in 2024, has been reflecting on how profoundly life has changed. He openly acknowledged that regardless of how involved a father strives to be, the mother's role remains incomparable, especially after witnessing Sheetal's 30-hour labor. It's a sentiment many parents can relate to – the sheer physical and emotional endurance required during childbirth is a unique and awe-inspiring experience.
He also spoke with genuine affection (and a touch of humor) about his relationship with Sheetal. He even shared a funny anecdote about how she sometimes wakes up irritated with him due to his actions in her dreams! This lighthearted moment underscores the deep connection and playful dynamic between them. Vikrant has previously shared that Sheetal stood by him even during his struggling days in Mumbai, when he was constantly auditioning for acting roles. Their love story spans many years, culminating in their marriage in 2022. In a candid conversation with Ranveer Allahbadia, Vikrant emphasized the ongoing nature of marriage, saying, "Marriage is a constant work in progress, pouring energy in all possible ways." It's a reminder that strong relationships require continuous effort and dedication.
He confessed that while he might have been somewhat hesitant about long-term commitment in his younger years, he had always envisioned having a family. Meeting Sheetal, he explained, simply made the decision easier. He clarified that he wasn't ever truly "commitment-phobic" once he found the right partner. And witnessing her navigate pregnancy only deepened his admiration and respect for her. This highlights a common experience – finding someone who makes the idea of commitment feel natural and fulfilling.
Talking about those transformative nine months, he shared how deeply emotional it was to witness Sheetal's evolution throughout the pregnancy. "During the nine months of pregnancy, to see Sheetal… and I have known Sheetal for more than 10 years. To see that little girl, to see her belly grow day by day. She went through 30 hours of labour I think. I mean women endure a lot," he recalled with palpable emotion. He reiterated his earlier statement, emphasizing that nothing a man does "can even come close to it." Vikrant also shared that Sheetal was the one who chose the name Vardaan for their son, suggesting her strong sense of self and her active role in shaping their family's identity.
And this is the part most people miss... It's not just about the physical aspects of pregnancy and childbirth, but also the emotional and psychological transformations that occur. The bond between a mother and child begins long before birth, and it's a powerful and profound connection.
When the conversation shifted to dreams, Vikrant admitted that he doesn’t analyse them much. But Sheetal? That’s a different story! He laughed as he recounted, "The other day, she actually had a dream that I was on a hike with some pretty girl, and she was calling out my name, and I am not responding in her dream and I’m just walking further and further away. She woke up and she fought with me over a dream." It's a humorous anecdote that many couples can likely relate to, highlighting the quirky and sometimes irrational nature of dreams and their impact on relationships. But here's where it gets controversial... Does dreaming about someone indicate a deeper subconscious feeling, or is it just a random firing of neurons? What do you think?
On the work front, Vikrant had a truly remarkable year, culminating in winning the National Film Award for Best Actor for his outstanding performance in '12th Fail.' In 2025, he was seen in 'Aankhon Ki Gustaakhiyan', with Shanaya Kapoor. This showcases his continued success and dedication to his craft.
Vikrant's heartfelt words offer a glimpse into the realities of parenthood and the immense strength of mothers. It's a reminder to appreciate the sacrifices made and to acknowledge the profound impact of women in our lives. What are your thoughts on the division of labor in parenthood? Do you agree with Vikrant's sentiment that a man's contribution can't compare to a woman's during pregnancy and childbirth? Share your experiences and perspectives in the comments below!
